| Needs, Empathy, Rosenberg, Maslow |
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(An earlier draft of this comment appeared in my blog on Thursday, 13 March 2008.) Marshall Rosenberg cites Abraham Maslow as an influence. I expect to explore Maslow's work more in the future. I've heard many refer to Maslow's "hierarchy of needs." When offering verbally facilitated empathy, those using NVC* often involve a possibly related technique. Having asked, "Are you feeling [guessing a feeling] because you're needing [guessing a need]?" one follows with another question. "And if that need were met, what need would be met by that?" I've heard those who offer NVC* training report that this helps individuals reach more deeply as they identify more fundamental needs. *Nonviolent Communication (NVC) developed by Marshall B. Rosenberg, Ph.D., author of the book, Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life, remains a substantial source of inspiration, among others, in my process of Communicating Across Differences. |